011: Generations Collide: How We Were Raised over Changing Times

This week on Two Millennials and Mom, we welcome our first-ever guest: Trey, our older brother! Join us as we dive into generational differences, childhood memories, and the unique dynamics of a blended family. From debating nature vs. nurture to reminiscing about dial-up internet and rotary phones, this episode is packed with laughter, reflection and insightful commentary about growing up on both sides of a new Millennium. Trey’s presence adds a whole new layer to our conversations about how upbringing, the rise of technology, societal shifts and current events have shaped our lives. Don’t miss this special episode as we explore what it meant to be raised across 3 generations!

 

10,000-Foot View of this Episode:

• Generational Upbringing: Trey shares his experiences growing up in a blended household, highlighting the challenges of switching between two similar but distinct parenting styles. He reflects on how these experiences shaped his resilience and ability to adapt.
• Nature vs. Nurture: The siblings and Mom debate the age-old question of which has a greater influence: the environment you’re raised in or the way you’re treated. Personal anecdotes reveal how accountability, problem-solving and emotional intelligence were instilled in their upbringing.
• First Memories: A lighthearted discussion on their earliest memories, from Cole’s Timon and Pumbaa birthday cake to Trey’s balloon mishap. These stories offer a nostalgic glimpse into the original defining moments of their childhood.
• Technology Across Generations: The family explores the evolution of communication, from rotary phones and AOL Instant Messenger to MySpace and texting. They dive into how each generation’s access to technology shaped their communication preferences and social interactions, especially with the current events of each of their generations.
• Parenting Evolution: The group reflects on how parenting tactics adapted over time, balancing discipline with fostering independence. They examine how these approaches were tailored to each child’s personality and the lessons learned along the way.
• Blended Family Dynamics: Trey’s perspective as a stepson adds depth to the conversation, shedding light on the complexities and rewards of growing up in a blended family. Together, they reflect on how shared values and traditions brought them closer.
• Weird Thoughts: Callie, Cole, Trey and Mecca reflect on how different things were "back in their day" compared to now, offering humorous and relatable quips on everything from technology to trends. Their unique generational perspectives spark fun debates and reveal how far we've come (and sometimes how little we've changed).

 

Memorable Quotes:

• "You could be a picky eater at our house if you wanted to, but you were going to be skinny." – Cole
• "Dude, it used to take us 10 minutes to turn the internet on. Chill." – Cole
• “Everybody glued stuff on their kids' heads!” – Mecca
• “You guys did not grow up with school shootings.” – Mecca
• “You automatically get respect from me at the beginning. Not because you're older than me, but because you're a person.” – Callie
• "Our generation had parents that were, on some level, political zealots. And I think that that may be part of what has driven this severe divide in our nation, at this point." – Cole
• "I'm not saying the moon landing didn't happen and that it was staged. I don't believe that, although one in 10 Americans does. Whatever." – Callie

• "We very rarely jumped to your defense first, which I think is something that goes on now that I think is really wrong when, you know, parents immediately blame the adult for whatever was going on. Sometimes it really is your bratty kid that's doing it." – Mecca

 

 

Resources Mentioned:

• Generational study exploring the “Xennial” micro-generation.
• Tips for setting up digital legacy contacts (Facebook and Apple memorialization settings).
• A throwback to nostalgic technology sounds, like dial-up internet and typewriters!!

 

Call to Action:

Have thoughts on generational gray areas and differences within your own family’s dynamics? We’d love to hear from you! Share your stories, memories, or questions by connecting with us on social media or leaving a review. Don’t forget to tag us if you’re reminiscing about rotary phones or your MySpace top 8!