001: The Power of Respectful Disagreement

In this episode, Callie, Cole and Mecca briefly introduce themselves before diving into conversations about how Texas isn’t quite the South, the critical role of engaging in difficult conversations with loved ones and the concept of hidden biases that we all carry. Plus, Cole shares a fascinating “weird thought” about how different life would be if humans had evolved with their thumbs on the outside of their hands. (He's weird. We know.)

 

10,000-Foot View of this Episode:

• Cole getting struck by Lightening: Cole shares a story of how Lightening McQueen mysteriously ka-chowed his online shopping universe. See the culprits here: https://amzn.to/4g5Xh3l (affiliate link)
• Texas vs. The South: The Two Millennials and Mom discuss why Texas is culturally distinct from the traditional Southern states and how that shapes their perspectives.
• The Importance of Tough Conversations: Mecca highlights the necessity of having difficult conversations with those we care about, emphasizing that these dialogues are crucial for understanding and connection.
• Understanding Hidden Biases: The group delves into the concept of hidden biases, inspired by the book Blindspot, and how acknowledging these biases can lead to greater self-awareness and empathy. Check out the book here: https://amzn.to/3X2zbxK (affiliate link)
• Weird Thoughts: Cole gets us pondering about how technology and daily life might be different if humans had evolved with their thumbs positioned on the outside of their hands.

 

Memorable Quotes:

• "Whatever. I'm just gonna wear the damn Crocs. I don't care if they're too small. It'll be hilarious." – Cole
• “I'm a real hip mom! That's why I'm here!” – Mecca
• “If we can’t have hard conversations with people that we love, then who can we have them with?” – Callie

 

Resources Mentioned:

• Blindspot: Hidden Biases of Good People by Mahzarin R. Banaji and Anthony G. Greenwald https://amzn.to/3X2zbxK (affiliate link)

 

Call to Action:

After listening, we urge you to consider the cultural nuances in your own life and the biases that might influence your perspectives. How can you engage in more meaningful conversations with those around you?